Kathryn McLellan is a qualitative social scientist living in Chicago with her husband and plants.
She once had a $50.45 library fine.
Despite not speaking Spanish nor having ever taken an econ class, she is an expert on Chilean economics.
Did you know that the official term for people who make hooked rugs is hookers?
- Another picture from my epic walk last night. I was having a lot of thoughts and feelings about the reactions to Natalie Beach’s story about Caroline Calloway, and this walk was probably the nicest gift I could give myself, all sweaty and full of other people’s stories in the dark. I’ve been struggling a lot recently with the crazy role that outside people played in my abuse and gaslighting, the what-ifs someone, anyone, has stepped up and said no, this behavior is fucked up and wrong. And yet, instead, people love the narcissist. I also learned that I still have this weird fear that somehow my ex-bf will find out that I’ve been truthful about his abuse (notably I almost worded it in a way that blamed me) and he will come and attack me and “win” much like what’s happening now but on a much tinier scale. The worry is a bit silly, I’ve made my life small and tight so no one or nothing that actually matters would be actually affected. I could probably hide in the closet until it was over just fine, and as long as I stay small and contained, my narrative won’t touch on his world. And yet? I’m still terrified. But thE universe gave me a lovely walk with big sky energy and the sight of a fancy garden party in a giant gnome-like house, and that’s something.
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The problem is once people have bought you, in this case becoming regular readers with the metrics and clicks and whatnot that brings, well they feel they deserve something. Two recent examples come to mind (strangely both involving divorce):
1) As I’m sure most of you know, Heather Armstrong and her husband Jon (of Dooce) are getting divorced. Dooce is by far the most popular personal blog and the news hit far and wide (even in the NYT!) garnering thousands of people’s opinions. Heather is no stranger to sharing her private life with the world; she shared her difficulties with post-partum depression for example.
The responses to the news were widespread and ranging. There was a lot of sadness, of “I knew its”, and even joy – one of the top results for dooce and divorce is a post “Dooce is getting a divorce. And I’m glad” But, in reaction to a request for privacy and understanding, there was a lot of “why do they think (they deserve) get privacy now”? In some ways, since Heather had been open before, she was seen to have lost the right to be private now. Her life was assumed to be public content and although she provided very little information, people constantly analyzed, cited, and demanded more. I’d love to know how she navigated that, giving just enough information for her audience/customers but not more than she could personally handle.
2) Chaviva (who I once hired for a job a bazillion years ago) also recently got a divorce, inpacting how she viewed and acted as a Orthodox Jewish convert. She got a fair amount of negative feedback on some of her life decisions leading her to take down her entire blog – years worth of posts. This is particularly notable since, like Dooce, she makes her living off of social media and blogging (although to a much lesser extent). She, in essence, trashed her resume.
Her life was public enough where people felt like they could comment and judge her on her behavior. She’d set it up that way – becoming a public voice on converting and being an Orthodox convert, but her posts didn’t divert from that – they were on the new religious difficulties that she faced. But her narrative didn’t match what people expected from her even though it was still coherent, it still made sense to who she had been and who she was becoming. It makes me think of the out cry when Harry and Hermione didn’t end up together and makes me wonder if there’s a convergence between real people who seem more fictional/narrative and fictional characters who become more real in our lives.
Either way, for both of these women, they lost control over their stories to their audiences – their lives became public consumption to be critiqued. The reader became the consumer, feeling free to demand something for their attention.
I’ve been having a conversation with Alex recently about the role of the internet, social media, and blogging in our lives – the good, the bad, and ugly In her case, its internet behavior – she channels Emily Post like no one’s business.
For me, it goes back to who owns the story. If many bloggers are writing about their lives and are marketing themselves (which many are) and if consumers own brands (which I believe heartily), then well who owns the story?
No one owns my story – at least now. My three regular readers (I love you guys!) includes probably my sister and others that I’d tell the same things to, email the same pictures to, who are invested in the story but only because the story is ‘me’.
This hasn’t always been the case. A long time ago, in a land far away (LiveJournal), I was involved in a clique. For the people I knew, ‘the’ clique. It was a ratings community, choosing its members by their writing, power struggles, and whim. There were expectations of us, to write certain things and ways, to lord, just a bit, over those who didn’t make it but tried and tried again to get our approval. And to some extent my story stopped just being about me but my performance. What would ‘sell’ in Peoria, in LA, NY, and hundreds of computers in between.
I’m sure this sounds ridiculous to you, but what I was doing wasn’t so different from what a lot of other bloggers are doing now – tracking which posts get the most hits, comments, track-backs. They do it for the potential cash (and yes, there are really that many people trying to make ‘it’ whatever that is from their blogs), and I did it for the ego rush during a bad time in my life, but at the base it’s the same. We work on our marketing, packaging, and PR to sell our product (our stories) to the consumer. And once it’s sold, well that’s where the problems are….
So Pinterest ethics. The biggest one is that it is so easy to take an image or idea away from the original creator and leave it either un-cited or cited to someone else. That’s one of the first things they taught us in grade school, right, to cite the original source?
Not citing correctly sucks for both pinners and pinees because: a) everyone likes to get credit for their own awesome idea; b) it’s hard to find more information if you’d like to learn more about the picture/idea; c) it makes it a lot easier for people to… borrow ideas. This isn’t just about Pinterest – Allison reports that she had issues before, but Pinterest made it like “trying to put out a wildfire one measuring cup of water at a time”. Can you imagine seeing your stuff everyday wandering around without you? It’s especially horrible because Pinterest is otherwise such a great source of exposure for bloggers and artisans.
So credit for original materials check. What other ethical responsibilities do we have as pinners? Frolic suggests (though not specifically for Pinterest) that we cite not only the source but how we found it. I have to admit that’s something I’m particularly bad at – mainly because I’m often not sure where I found the link (I’m a bit of an open tab pack rat) and that I’m not sure how to do so gracefully. I feel like it would just be a long path of x via y via z, via a, b, c…. It’s something I’m definitely going to now try to keep an eye on.
Killa b gives several more suggestions on ethically pinning – going beyond crediting to suggesting that we should add solid descriptions and hashtags. I feel almost though like that’s going a little too far – where is the line between promoting others and also making sure that Pinterest is working for you? I.e. I hate hashtags, hate how they look, and don’t use them. If I would never use them, do I still have a responsiblity to use them for other people? I’m not sure where that line is and I think it might be different for different sources – maybe not for a picture from Anthropologie but maybe for a tutorial from an independent blogger?
“Everyone takes pictures of that” said the old man soaking up the unexpected March sun when I pulled out my phone. I understand why – this is just the little unexpected message I needed today. I get so caught up in trying to be the better me, the perfectly organized me, that I forget to be, well, me.
There’s been a lot of chatter about ethics and Pinterest recently. While following the discussion, I learned some surprising things about the copyright rules and legality.
I’ve been following a long conversation about the ethical responsibilities of Pinterest – how to pin, how to credit, but I hadn’t really thought about the legal implications until I read this from DDKPortraits. In short, Cold Brew Labs technically owns the copyright to anything you pin. You can be held liable for anything you pin that you don’t have rights to and anything you do they can use. (if you want more legal details, definitely check out the link).
I find this particularly interesting since Pinterest is the new big thing for companies. Everyone wants to be on Pinterest, being re-pinned over and over. It makes sense – it’s really good, free publicity right now. But for companies that are so paranoid about intellectual property, it seems odd. It epitomizes the issues that companies have sometimes with social media – they’re so desperate to be there and using it that they don’t think it all or even some of the way through. Notably, smaller places/individual artisans are thinking about these issues, so it’s even more of an oversight imho.
Pinterest is clearly aware of and interested in the use of it as a sales/influence tool with the release of Pinerly – a tool to track the influence and spread of pins. Pinterest also called DDKPortraits to get her suggestions after the linked post so it’s probably safe to assume that changes are to come. (which is awesome since I’d hate to have to delete my own boards).
Pinterest ethics to come on Wednesday. Until then, here’s some more links on the legal issues of Pinterest.
Obama was, arguably, one of the best branded presidential candidates of all time. The visuals, the message of hope and change, it was all one organized package. So it’s surprising that this is almost the anti-branding campaign year, epitomized by this quote from today’s NYT: “I voted for the more electable not-Romney,” In case you were wondering, that’s Santorum who should have enough brand identity of his own. But particularly this year, it’s all who people aren’t, not who they are. Romney is the not-Obama, Santorum and Gingrich are the not-Romneys. I’m hoping that Obama returns to his brand and doesn’t follow this year’s pattern, otherwise this will be a particularly unfortunate mess of not-not-nots.